The Challenge of Writing

I blog. That is what I do. I consider myself pretty darn good at it too. But writing, that is a whole different can of worms in my mind. Writing is what some of these amazingly talented women of the blogging community can do that instantly pulls me in to their posts. They have a way of making me feel what they are saying, making me a part of that moment. Those women are writers. I am a blogger.

Yes, I write words, sentences, paragraphs, tweets, statuses, jokes, quotes, phrases, and stammers all day long. It is not the same thing as what Writers do. I say this to others and they say I am writing, but I feel calling myself a Writer tarnishes what I consider the talent that I know. It is like comparing burgers. For me, I feel like a plain burger and occasionally I may even be a cheeseburger. Writers though are Kobe beef burgers with aged cheddar cheese, thick cut peppered bacon, layered fresh avocado, perfectly ripe tomato, and just a few paper-thin slices of red onion all tucked between a lightly-toasted artisan onion roll (and not one disgusting dill pickle even on the plate, thank you very much). I want to be that kind of burger! Not that a good old plain burger isn’t good, but it just is not on the same level.

What brought me to blog about this was that I read a wonderful post from Heather King on Type-A Parent for the new We Still Blog series Kelby has started. I read Heather’s post – it tugged at my heart-strings, it made tears well up in my eyes, it made me shake my ahead in agreement and understanding at the screen as I read. I felt what she had written.

Then…..

Kelby encourages us to participate. Gulp. I am not sure if that is directed towards me, in fact I am pretty sure of it, but being me and yearning to be a Writer I am playing in the sandbox with everyone else. My castle may not be as grand, but I am happy to be near the grandeur of others. Our prompt is Life’s Challenges and right now, after just reading such wonderful Writing and then being asked to participate – well that is my current life challenge.

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http://typeaparent.com Kelby Carr

Thank you so much for participating! This is a wonderful post (and yes, it sure IS writing!!). :-)
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  Thanks Kelby – I like that you are doing the series. Sometimes I get off track and forget about this kind of writing instead of just sponsored stuff. I hope many more play along too!
http://twitter.com/HeatheroftheEO HeatheroftheEO

This post is a really good burger. Thank you for your kind words, and for sitting down to write. You Wrote.
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  Thank you Heather for your inspiration!
Shannon Whitfield

Inspiring post, thank you. I needed this today (and I personally think you’re at Kobe status already:)
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  Thanks Shannon!
Tiffany Winner

My mother is an awesome writer, she had a novel published once, I’ve always admired how well she develops her characters and how much depth goes into her stories thismomwins@gmail.com
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  How awesome! Is her novel still being published? Have you inherited her writing gene?
http://southerngirlramblings.com/ Kecia

I agree that there is a difference between a blogger and a writer. I tend to be the former, though I am working on making my posts have more of a storytelling feel than just putting words on the screen.
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  You and me both Kecia! I figure the more we blog, hopefully the more Writer will come out for us!
tannawings

You write- you tell of your family, your hope and sometimes your dreams. Isn’t that what ‘writers’ do? You must write, because here I am reading what you wrote!
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  I’m just going to put you in my pocket – you are always such a wonderful cheerleader {{HUGS}}
GlArthy

I just read Heather’s post via your link. It is truly amazing how she is able to take one’s mind to the place she wants the reader to go (and she did start out about the mind racing ahead). It was as though one could see the kids.
You do the same too Robyn, but in a shorter version – here it is, I’ve tried it and what do you think. Definitely a difference between the two styles. Don’t put yourself down for that, you both have Followers to suit your styles of writing and that is why they come back. By all means if you want to branch out in that area, go for it!!
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  Thank you. I didn’t mean to sound as though I was putting myself down. I do feel I am a really good blogger, I just aspire to be a Writer someday too.
Ravzie

I often think I would like to write, that I could write and I could be good at it. However, I lack the self direction to actually do it. I think I also lack imagination… Thankfully there are plenty of people like you who do share your thoughts and information with the rest of us! That whole burger thing made me hungry.
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  Ha! I love that it made you hungry! That is a huge compliment for me!
Jennifer Peaslee

I think you write just fine…of course you’re a writer! Also – like most things – it is practice that makes you better. Have you noticed an improvement in your writing from the beginning posts to now? jenniferpeaslee at gmail dot com
http://twitter.com/Mindyvol Mindy S

Robyn, I subscribe to several blogs but I don’t read very many of them. Do you know which blog I read almost religiously? Yours! Don’t sell yourself short. You ARE a writer and a pretty darn good one at that. The reason why I read your blog is because you are REAL and write in a way that makes me feel like I could stop by your house and share a big piece of chocolate cake with you. ;)
http://twitter.com/rkosully Robin

I think you’re a very good writer, Robyn, and your posts are always engaging.
I’m sure you could write a great novel if you wanted to!
http://twitter.com/kristinnw Kristin

You are correct about writing, Robyn…but I think of you more as a writer than as a “blogger.” You surely don’t slap stuff on the page and call it writing. You have a gift and you use it well. I don’t really “read” many blogs…as in reading for pleasure/enrichment, etc…because not many have writing of that caliber. Yours does, however. And I am a former editor and pretty critical of writing. ;)
Round Rock Gal

I understand how you feel about calling yourself a “writer” as I struggle with that too. At the present time, I can’t even call myself a blogger as I haven’t been doing too much of that these days either. Combine a crazy, busy schedule with other demands and I just haven’t felt the desire to write or post anything. If you get something on paper (e-paper that is) then you are a writer my friend.
Jamaise Wilson

I’ve been blogging for four years and all I do is product review/giveaway. I want so badly to write content, but I feel I haven’t found my voice. I am absolutely terrified to start. I’ll sit down with something to say and start and chicken out. I know I have lots to say, & lots to offer. I don’t know exactly what I’m scared of. I think it’s a mixture of being insecure with my writing skills, feeling vulnerable about pouring myself into a post for all to see, keeping content coming & fresh, & feeling pressure to schedule posts. One day… one day. jamaisew@gmail.com
Jen Healthy Life Deals

I have to sit down and work on my writing skill also. It is really hard for me because it doesn’t come naturally. Maybe it’s a Fox thing LOL
terrik

I especially like the way you blog because you have a more conversational tone than many other blogs. The internet is a big place, and there is plenty of room for different kind of voices. Sometimes I like to read moving, touching, thought-provoking posts, other times I’d rather hear about parenting experiences from other parents, or I’m in the mood for something crazy and irreverent. Or something completely different from all of the above.
http://twitter.com/St4ceyNicole Stacey Nicole

I love your blog and I think if you were a burger you wouldn’t just be a “burger”, you would be a one of a kind burger haha. I can’t write very well at All. I want to eventually start blogging but I’m worried I will run out of things to talk about lol
Email – Stacey.brickner6@gmail.com
MichelleS

I think the very last paragraph is great. There are varying sizes of castles on the spectrum, some that you may see as defeating compared to your blog, but you need to stay focused on your journey and how you connect with your readers who are here to obviously listen to what you have to say.
Sheila r

Great post. Sometimes I struggle with what to write about
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http://twitter.com/itsjuststarla Starla Mint

I love reading stuff like this because I’m from the other side; I’m a “trained” writer (have my degree in it) and even though I love writing, I am faced with challenges when it comes to blogging. I have tried many times to have my own personal blog, but for whatever reason, i just can’t do it. I have to write freelance for several organizations or other big blogs so I can have a fire under my booty to get it done…but that’s what I love! I love deadlines.

its.a.hit at gmail dot com
GlArthy

What I love about the photo above is the PEN! yes please i see calligraphy :o) one of my specialties. I kindda like writing with ‘flare’ – yes mam!
terry petero

as you do them very well, i use to love to write poems ,that stopped real quick after the first kiddo lol but i still have the book.

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